Relationship Status: Single
Farquar LensInterested In: Men
What kind of person do you see?
A] A loose female whom has had 4 kids by 3 different men and is probably going to end up with more.
B] A woman who adopted her sister’s kid after her sister was put into prison, had two children with her husband whom is deceased after a horrific accident, and adopted an orphan because she and her husband had always talked of doing so.
We might look at someone and see their stats or their job or their clothes or their friends, but we’re not seeing them. We’re looking at the whats and not past them to the who. We’re looking at minute details but not seeing the whole person.
What if Woman A, whatever her faults and trials, faithfully prays and takes her children to church? What if Woman B “collects” these kids in order to look good in front of people in public but abuses the children privately?
I can’t think at the moment of how to formalize this into a whole piece. Maybe it’ll come to me later. [And yes, I made up the names myself and the names may or may not have anything to do with the “interesting” names of my future kids].
I just wanted to say, start having conversations with each other, real, meaningful conversations.